How to Love your body, reducing stretch marks and Gym Outfits!


Second blog.. no pressure no pressure.  (Last blog: ‘how to get a smaller waist’)

If you’re a newbie, my names Esé and I’ve been sharing my fitness journey which incorporates Body,Mind and Spirit. Heres my insta if you want to have more of a look: esekalusi  Its all workouts that you can do in the comfort of your own home! Impressive, right?

As usual feel free the skip to the part you want to read the most.. I hate that feeling when you’re reading/watching something and your like lol, can you get to the point already? Wow, i’m doing it right now.

Ok, well..I begin by talking about the importance of loving the body you were blessed with then I share the best sports bras (in my opinion) ranging from the low end of the market to the high end and how you can prevent stretch marks. Lastly, I will finish by giving you a few gym outfit ideas and where you can get them from.



To wish you were someone else is to waste the person you are.
Sven Goran Eriksson


The female body is a masterpiece.

I haven’t always thought about my body like this. As a young female growing up in this new age technology society, where we are bombarded with pictures in the media (instagram, especially.) of ‘perfect’ women it is hard to look in the mirror and see yourself as ‘perfect’. Well i’m here to tell you that you are.  You are perfect.



Understand accepting yourself is an ongoing process. There are some days I rather not see a mirror. I would constantly look at other bodies and wish I could exchange mine or just ‘enhance’ something so I could be ‘perfect’.

Lets understand what ‘perfection’ is :

  • Perfection is a word used to describe when you have hit a certain criteria. You have to question yourself.. who’s criteria? And why? Is it because the media is glorifying a certain type of body?

Perfection isn’t a real thing. Especially in relation to a unique human being like you. You shouldn’t be hitting a certain criteria. Uniqueness doesn’t have a criteria… you are one of a kind. You can never ever have someone else’s body.. think about it. No matter how much you beg, plead or even cry. You can never transport yourself into another body. So, why beat yourself up?

A ‘perfect’ body should be when its at its healthiest.. when you are eating right, when your systems are working efficiently.  ~ Esé

That doesn’t mean to say you shouldn’t want to improve yourself.

My point is.. you should be happy with what you have been given and work with it.

You want a flatter stomach? Get on that treadmill and start sweating! Bigger bum? Buy those weights and start squatting like your life depends on it. The first step to progression is desire.. but desire without action is useless.

2.I AM. (MIND)

I want you to practice saying something in the mirror for me.. every single day. When you’re naked even! Get comfortable in your own skin.

I am beautiful

I am love 

I am whole

I am peace

What you call yourself is eventually what you will become. So think about that next time you say something nasty about yourself. You are your biggest fan.


Because I am a spiritual person, I understand that I am not only my body and when its time to say bye-bye to earth i’ll leave my body behind.

Understanding this helps me not to get too attached to my body. My body is a machine that needs to be looked after but doesn’t need to be obsessed over negatively. You have a beautiful mind and a lovely spirit..focus on them.

I think having a beautiful mind and lovely spirit outweighs a banging body any day.



Why are sports bras important?

What keeps the size and shape of your boobies is your cooper ligaments and once this breaks down, it can NEVER bounce back. This is what causes sagging. Sports bras reduce movement by offering support, so they are super important.



Massage into your boobs before you workout or before you go to sleep. Not every single day. Maybe 3-4 times a week. Due to the high amount of Vitamin E it contains it prevents and diminishes stretch marks.


Listen, I don’t know the science behind this it might even be a psychological thing but I do this like once or twice a week. But it has to be a very loose sports bra. I wear the first one.

Nike,£18 (2)

  • Low end  (first picture)..I think is good value for money. It is good for a low intensity workout, it does the job and lasts for a long time. However, if you are looking to jog/skip things that require loads of movement i’d recommend a Puma/Nike as they offer strong support/water proof.


  • You can get them on any the company site however i recommend sports direct as they are always doing deals!


I haven’t included links because links are so unreliable, so i’ve put the exact name and price for every product all you need todo is google search and it should come up.

I have the third and fourth outfit, click here to see them on: 


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1. Nike Indy logo light (£29.99) 2.Nike Power Tights (£48) 3.Nike Dry Element Half Zip (£47.99) 4.Nike Big mouth Water Bottle (4.99) 5.Nike Access Soleday Backpack (£23) 6.Trainers: Nike flex Essential Training shoes (£47.99)



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PUMA: 1.En pointe Logo bra (34.99) 2.Puma Knit shorts (£21.99) 3.Puma Velvet Rope Fierce trainers (£84.99) 4.Puma En Pointe Big Cat Tank Top (£24.99) 5. Puma Evo Train Quatre Zip Top Mens (£44.99) 6.Puma EP sports bag LDS 82 (£19)




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Nike Indy logo light (£29.99) 2.Nike Power Tights (£48) 3.Nike Dry Element Half Zip (£47.99) 4.Nike Big mouth Water Bottle (4.99) 5.Nike Access Soleday Backpack (£23) 6.Trainers: Nike flex Essential Training shoes (£47.99)


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PRETTY LITTLE THING: 1. Charcoal Panelled Sports Crop top (£15) 2. Charcoal Grey Contrast Sports Legging (£15) 3.Puma Rope Satin En Pointe (£85)4. Fierce Rope Fierce trainers (84.99)



Thank-you for your time.

I hope you enjoyed this.

Any questions/queries or just want to express something. @Esekalusi on all platforms. Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat!

Love always, regardless.

Esé Kalusi

Here are a few links to my latest workout clips:

leg exercise

deep stomach exercise

smaller waist circuit

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